Years back, a friend begged me to talk to her boyfriend on her behalf because he told her it was over between them. Trust me, I am not someone who interferes in people’s relationship but I had to in this case. I had to call him because of the reason she told me made him break up with her. In her words “he broke up with me because I call too much.” I wanted to know his side of the story and also see if I could make him change his mind. So I called my friend’s bae or should I say ex-bae since he has broken up with her and below is our conversation;
Me: Hello, Good Evening.
Him: Evening my dear, how are you?
Me: I’m fine, you? How’s work?
Him: Work is fine. I’m still at the office but I will soon be leaving.
Me: Okay. I guess you know why I’m calling?
Him: I do, your friend told you I broke up with her and that’s why you called me.
Me: True. So what happened? I want to know your side of the story.
Him: I am tired of your friend’s attitude. She calls me every minute of the day and every time she calls, she always want to know where I am, who I’m with etc and at the end of her calls, she always want me to say “I love you” to her to be sure I am not with another girl. Your friend can call me up to 10 times a day (that I know). There was a time I almost had an accident because I was on the phone talking to her while driving. I told her I was driving and couldn’t talk with her but she got angry and said I had a lady in my car that was why I didn’t want to talk to her. My dear, I am tired of this relationship, I can’t come and go and kill myself because of her. Imagine, she has called me over 5 times today. The last time she called I told her I was working and will talk to her later only for her to start nagging as usual. My dear, I had to end the relationship I can’t continue again abeg.
Me: I understand you. Take care then.
After the call, my very eager friend asked me what her “ex-bae” said. I narrated everything to her and she wasn’t happy, she said I wasn’t any help to her. My wonderful friend didn’t sleep that night, she kept calling his phone until he switched it off. First thing the next day, she went to his place. She came back smiling and said they’ve settled their ish but they broke up again for good after some weeks.
After reading the conversation between my friend’s ex and I, can we say she was in love with her boyfriend or insecure?