THE CONVERSATION 1

Yippee!!! its two weeks i started blogging… If you were to rate me on a scale of 1-10, what number would i be? You better not rate me below 10… just kidding….

Today’s post is a conversation that occurred between a colleague and I… you see, my colleague came to work today with a very looooooong face, when i saw him, i became concerned but couldn’t say anything but knowing his kind of person, i knew he would talk to me if he truly needs my help. I put on my computer, ready to start my day’s job still hoping in my heart that he would tell me what’s wrong with him…Lily i heard him call my name and in my heart, i flipped and said yay!!! because finally, he gets to spill what’s bugging him…then he says… i need your input on this matter, i know you’re a lady, so you will understand the situation better than me. I told him i will try and give my honest opinion but i might not be right tho but i will try.

And he goes…

MY COLLEAGUE: Please i need you to listen to what i have to say.

ME: Okay, i’m all ears.

MY COLLEAGUE: I called someone yesterday (take note, he didn’t say girlfriend in the beginning of the conversation) at about past 7pm, when i called her, she picked and told me she would call back soon, i noticed that where she was was a little noisy, like she was in a party. Although, she told me she would be going to see her friend because she was organising something. (i really can’t explain or probably i have forgotten what he said there but i sha know he said she was going for an event) After waiting for her call for hours, i decided to call her back. I tried her number, it rang and i didn’t get any response from her. I called her severally like my life depended on hearing from her but still, no response. i called until late in the night but the babe no gree pick my call o…lol…you see ehn, she has two phones, a blackberry and a nokia torchlight phone and i tried both phones but when i got no result, i got tired and sent her two messages, one for each phone. (Although, he didn’t tell me the content of his messages) The following morning which is today, she called me and was apologising that she is sorry for not picking my calls, she said i forgot her phone where she was charging it and went home, actually, she said someone came to pick her and she forgot the phone, she said it was the same person who dropped her, brought the phone she forgot last night (i’m assuming this person is a guy) She has been bombarding me with calls since morning o.

After his long story, he asked me if the chic is saying the truth or something scary happened last night. (i hope you understand what i mean by scary).

ME: I’m a lady but truth is, she might be telling you what truly happened if this is the first time its happening but if otherwise, she may be lying.

MY COLLEAGUE: This is not the first time she’s doing it, she did it one time, something similar sef, that was how i called and called her for where, the babe no gree pick my call, she later said something happened that night that was why she couldn’t respond or return my calls.

ME: Hmmm! That’s serious mehn, this is a hard one o but she should have told you she would call you back that her batteries are down and she wants to charge them, why did she now tell you she would call back when she wasn’t too sure of herself… How is it possible that she forgot two phones at the same time and the same person (who is a guy) that dropped her last night, brought her phones for her the following day? I still find it hard to understand the matter o

MY COLLEAGUE: I’m tired of this her behavior, now she’s disturbing my phones with calls trying to explain and apologise for what she did. She acts like she has done something wrong other than forgetting her phones o. Maybe something happened last night, i can’t say but seriously, i am tired, i don’t understand what is going on.

ME: I know babes o and how they behave with their blackberry, me inclusive. e go hard for me to forget my bb o. but wait first, how come she forgot both phones? I no say Nokia torchlight phone battery nor dey die like that na. This one that she has done it before, i don’t know what to say or think again o.

I know i didn’t really help my colleague with my input, maybe i didn’t tell him what he wanted to hear but he is the one in the relationship, he has been with her for sometime now, he knows how she behaves, he knows her friends, i think he should get in touch with one of them that attended the party to know what truly happened. He doesn’t have to remain in the relationship if he feels threatened by her behavior/actions. I don’t think a relationship without trust should exist, it should be destroyed ASAP… Yes… i just said so, it should be destroyed.. Like my friend somii would always say “it’s just a relationship, it’s not a do or die affair.” 

What do you guys think?

 

 

 

 

 

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